Showing posts with label insecurity. Show all posts
Showing posts with label insecurity. Show all posts

Monday, 2 December 2024

Sunbeam School Reflections - Sunday 1st December

                      Journey of self-discovery

If I were in Cinnamon’s place, I think I’d feel a mix of gratitude and a little lost. Imagine knowing you’re loved deeply by your family, but still having those lingering questions about where you come from and who you are. It would be like carrying around a puzzle with one or two missing pieces. You can see the big picture, but it’s not completely whole.

I think there’d be moments of insecurity—wondering if I truly belong if people see me differently because of my story. And then, there’d be times of pride, knowing that my journey is special, that my family chose me and built a life around love, not just biology. But still, I’d want to know: What’s my history? Who am I beyond this life I’ve been given?

Cinnamon’s story shows how important it is to have people who accept you completely, even when you’re figuring yourself out. If I were him, I’d probably feel scared at times, but also hopeful—hopeful that I could find my answers while holding on to the love I already have. It’s a reminder that belonging isn’t about fitting into a mould; it’s about feeling seen, just as you are.

Prapti Rai

Sunbeam English School Bhagwanpur


The journey of self-discovery is a profound and transformative experience. It often involves introspection, exploration, and personal growth. Here are some key aspects:

1. Reflection: Take time to reflect on your values, beliefs, and experiences. Journaling can be a helpful tool.

2. Exploration: Engage in new activities, travel, or meet new people. Stepping outside your comfort zone can reveal hidden aspects of yourself.

3. Mindfulness: Practice mindfulness and meditation to increase self-awareness and connect with your inner thoughts and feelings.

4. Setting Goals: Identify what you want to achieve in life. Setting personal goals can give direction to your journey.

5. Embracing Change: Accept that change is a part of growth. Be open to adapting your views and understanding as you learn more about yourself.

6. Seeking Guidance: Sometimes, talking to a mentor or therapist can provide valuable insights and help you navigate your feelings.

7. Celebrating Growth: Acknowledge your progress and celebrate small victories. They contribute to your overall growth.

Remember, self-discovery is unique to each individual, and there’s no right or wrong way to navigate it. Enjoy the process!

Sanvi Rai

Sunbeam Hostel Bhagwanpur


The story "My Name is Cinnamon" reflects a journey of self-discovery through its humorous and heartfelt narrative. The protagonist, Vir, navigates the challenges of raising his mischievous pet goat, Cinnamon, while learning important life lessons. Vir’s decision to name the goat “Cinnamon” highlights his creative and unique perspective, symbolizing his individuality. As the story unfolds, Vir grows more confident in embracing his quirks and defending his choices, even when others find them unconventional. Through his bond with Cinnamon, Vir learns to celebrate differences, take responsibility, and value his passions. Ultimately, the story encourages readers to stay true to themselves and cherish the qualities that make them unique, making it a delightful tale of growth and self-acceptance.

Chitranshi Singh

Sunbeam English School Bhagwanpur 

                                                               

If I were in Cinnamon's place, I would likely feel a mix of emotions: love and gratitude for the family that chose me, but also confusion and perhaps a sense of longing to understand my origins. Being adopted into a loving family is a blessing, but societal judgments and constant reminders of being different might evoke feelings of insecurity or isolation.

I imagine there would be moments of self-doubt, especially when faced with intrusive questions or comments about being adopted. However, over time, I think I would come to cherish the love and care my adoptive family has shown me, realizing that family is defined not by blood but by connection, acceptance, and unconditional support.

This experience would likely make me more empathetic, resilient, and introspective, helping me appreciate the complexity of human relationships and the importance of forging my identity.

Simrat Kaur
Sunbeam English School Bhagwanpur

My Name Is Cinnamon
It is a multi-genre book because in this book, every page has different emotions; every single page is having suspense about what is going to happen in the coming page. The main character of the story is cinnamon. He was often curious, sometimes apprehensive, and a little sarcastic.
Adwik Gupta 
Sunbeam Suncity

With respect to the discussion by the elders, in my perspective, I think guidelines and advice from elders are needed together with monitoring so that mistakes made are corrected, But constant monitoring and sheltering are harmful for a person's overall growth. A person should be given the 
liberty to correct and learn from his/her own mistakes.
Parth Tulsyan
Sunbeam Suncit

After listening to the discussion of Leena ma'am, Sandeep sir, and Jugjiv sir. I think if children are monitored constantly. They will never be able to learn to be self-reliant and confident and will be unable to face and overcome challenges. It is necessary to be emotionally strong to face the real competitive world.
Just like a baby has to learn walking on its own by getting up every time after it falls down.
Mayank Malani
Sunbeam Suncity.



Sunday, 26 March 2023

The Lure Of Being Secure - Rishona Chopra


I think something we all feel is insecurity. At some point, we start rethinking our decisions and doubting ourselves.  Insecurity is simply a negative feeling which is really a disguise to fit in. It can be caused due to jealousy, and a lack of self-determination and optimism. Before raising our hand in class, do we feel a slight doubt about asking a particular question? We might feel what will other students think? Will they think that we don't know the answer to such a simple question. 

It is usually the thought "What will others think" that bothers us and affects us. No matter how much people say that we shouldn't care about what others say. Deep down, at some point, we do care, or at least I do. When someone says something about me in a negative way, it affects me if the person saying so is close to me as a friend or family. 

Whenever we feel something like that, we can always talk to ourselves. When I feel jealous of someone I tell myself that I am turning green with envy and that I have to turn normal again. It makes you feel better and makes a good laugh. 

Sometimes, we stop being ourselves and put on a personae of insecurity just to fit in. But, why fit in when you can stand out?

Rishona Chopra
Grade VII
Gyanshree School

Friday, 6 January 2023

My greatest fear and how I overcame it - Tenzin Jambey

People have so many fears in life, but we can overcome them by facing them and trying out the challenges that create fear. Like everyone, I have so many fears.

I am afraid of darkness, blood, scary things etc. Out of all these, my greatest fear is my future. I feel terrified when I think of my future and what I will become later. As my friends put it, it's very amusing, and I believe the same. 
This fear dips me into depression when I think of how my future would look and how I would take care of my family.

Specific questions arise in my mind, like 
would I be able to fulfil my family's wants? I fear feeling ashamed if I fail to meet my family's demands and wishes, as they put in a lot of hard work to send me to school. But I also believe where there is dark, there is light, too; where there is sorrow, there is happiness too!

There are plenty of careers and jobs that I can choose from, and this thought gives me relaxation and relief. 
This positive thought keeps my fear away and helps me focus on the better side of life!


Tenzin Jambey
Pestalozzi Children's Village Society


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